Key reasons why you should love yourself without conditions before loving someone else

Since the world in which we currently live in is powered by low vibrations such as hate, jealousy and fear, most of the relationships people develop with each other are primarily based on self-interest. Even the romantic ones.

Having experienced unconditional love during my spiritual awakening, I have come to the conclusion that we can not love another one without loving ourselves from within first. With the main purpose of helping you to avoid toxic relationships, I am listing in here some key reasons on why you should love yourself first, before loving someone else.

When you don't love yourself without conditions, you have not accepted yourself fully

When one does not love themselves without conditions, they take decisions based on the pressure they feel due to outdated templates which are based on low vibrations. Decisions based on the vibration of fear, lead to masks and undesired situations. As you live your own life through masks, you attract fake people. The same thing with your romantic relationships.

For you to meet true love, you have to accept yourself without conditions as the only thing that is true is unconditional love. Only love without conditions will live forever!

When you don't love yourself without conditions you hurt others

Based on my personal experience with toxic people, I have come to the conclusion that those who are hurt deep inside, hurt others very often due to the fact that they're not aware of their fear based actions. Blind in darkness, people who don't love themselves without conditions hurt others as they can not see the bigger picture. As far as my experience goes with life, people who don't love themselves without conditions end up beating their partners.

On the other side, those who love themselves without conditions find it really easy to control themselves during tough situations.

When you don't love yourself without conditions you try to control others

A healthy romantic relationship is primarily based on self respect and unconditional love. Those who don't love themselves without conditions seek control of their partner as they think based on fear and other low vibrations.

A relationship that is based on control is a fake one, it does not flow from the free will. On the other side, when one loves themselves without conditions they act out of love so they don't need to control their own romantic partner.

When you don't love yourself without conditions you build conditional romantic relationships

Being programmed through our ego, we do fall for darkness. People built their romantic relationships based on material interest, especially nowadays. Totally blind, they try to establish every kind of relationship by judging from the outer appearance. Based on my humble understanding, everything that does not have unity from within, does not last long!

Being a fish against the flow, I have always believed in unconditional love. I have been always against the conditions of this materialistic world.

When you don't love yourself without conditions the vibration of jealousy takes control over you

Those who don't stay in unconditional love, are being constantly possessed by very low vibrations. One of them is jealousy. By living their own lives based on such frequency, people suffer from within as their ego is constantly battling the true essence of their soul.

By being constantly jealous about your partner, you push your romantic relationship to destruction due to the fact that the vibration of jealousy brings on many fights.

When you don't love yourself without conditions you can not attract true love 

Based on the Law of Attraction, one manifests what they reflect. For you to find unconditional love, you have to love yourself without conditions. You have to accept yourself with all your flaws, your good and bad qualities.

At the moment you have accepted yourself without conditions, there is a very high chance for you attract another one who has accepted himself or herself without conditions.

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